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Changing Other People Scale (COPS)

7th March 2010

Persuasion and sex have this in common:  Everyone thinks they are better at both than they are at either.  We tend to take an optimistic view of our efforts – who aims sex or persuasion toward failure?  Thus, we think we’re pretty good, yes, indeedydo, thank you Sir and Madam, when we’re not.

We clearly suspect our weaknesses at sex.  Look at the magazine covers you read.  All of them offer quizzes and tests, tips and hints from your Uncle Irv or Aunt Shirley although never with those names but rather something like Amir Rastar or Mamimi LaZimi even though the advice is the same.  So, you admit your weaknesses in bed if only to yourself.  Why not admit them about persuasion?  That’s the first step on the journey of recovery.

So, how good are you?

Take this quiz.  Respond to each statement with your agreement or disagreement on this 5 point scale.

1 = Strongly disagree
2 = Disagree
3 = Neither agree nor disagree
4 = Agree
5 = Strongly agree

1.  When I try to persuade, the Other Guy changes in the direction I seek.

2.  I have a variety of tactics.

3.  I observe the Other Guy to size up opportunities.

4.  I think about persuasion.

5.  I read persuasion sources to learn more.

6.  The Other Guy rarely realizes when I’m trying to persuade.

7.  Most people probably don’t think I’m very good at persuasion.

8.  I can control my thoughts and feelings as needed when I’m trying to persuade someone.

9.  Given a choice between persuasion and power, I’ll take persuasion.

10. Machiavelli is a misunderstood genius.

Interpreting your score.

Score under 35: You’re normal.
Score  35 to 40: You’re effective.
Score  40 to 45: I’d hire you.
Score   over 45: Who are you fooling?

At some level would an effective persuader even take this quiz?  All bad persuasion is sincere, after all.

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A Snowy Day Report

6th February 2010

Let’s drop the Blog Wisdom pose and just accept it for what it is:  A Snowy Day.

Snow with Setting Sun.

Snow Front

Snow Angel with calisthenics.

Snow Angel

Snow Steve with gratitude.

Snow Steve

Snow Zooey with attitude.

Snow Zooey

Snow Melanie after I promised to take her to Acapulco next year.

Snow Acapulco

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Gotta Love a Girl . . .

6th February 2010

Before.

Feb Snow 09 010

After.

Feb Snow 09 011

And, as much fun as this is, she’s even more fun in a bikini!

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Taking by Giving

2nd February 2010

Pepsi has a new way to profit.

Pepsi-Cola is formally introducing on Monday an ambitious campaign named the Pepsi Refresh Project, aimed at doing well by doing good. The brand is dedicating at least $20 million through the end of the year for donations to local organizations and causes proposed by the public in realms like health, arts and culture, the environment and education.

Pepsi Refresh Doing GoodPepsi has a website that solicits ideas from consumers for charitable targets.  This is part of a larger collection of businesses, all seeking ways of engaging young consumers (18-34) and their strong charitable motivations.  And, of course, Hollywood is involved in this touching concern.  Demi Moore and Kevin Bacon are fronting the plan.

Hmmm.  Is Demi Moore related to anyone?

Yeah.  Ashton Kutcher fronted a Hollywood charitable activity.  You remember it don’t you?  It’s why we’re all riding that huge Volunteerism Wave right now.  Here’s a photo to Refresh your memory.

EIF I Participate Ashton

But, back to Pepsi.

“Our idea was that this year we’d try to shift the marketing and communications to something that’s truly walking the walk,” said Lee Clow, chief creative officer and global director for media arts at the Pepsi-Cola agency, TBWA Worldwide in Los Angeles, part of the Omnicom Group.

Man, ain’t Madison Avenue and Hollywood slick?  Promote charitable activity (for us Hoi Polloi, not them Cool Table) and make money doing it.  And, everyone thinks you’re hip, progressive, maybe even sensitive.  And, it only costs $20 million that’s tax deductible, attracts uncritical media coverage, and makes everyone sigh.

Remember the Rules!

All Bad Persuasion Is Sincere.

There’s a Difference between Persuasion, and Smoke and Mirrors; With Persuasion the Illusion Lingers.

Persuaders Can Either Be Famous or Effective, But Not Both.

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Dry Vodka Martini 1-31-10

31st January 2010

Dry Vodka Martini

  • 1 shot, journalism
  • 1 dash, persuasion
  • 1 ice filled shaker
  • stir in shaker, pour, then enjoy!

Lady Gaga’s Great and Insincere Persuasion

Lady-Gaga-Bad-RomanceI lost my manufactured pop culture street cred when I stopped teaching my large lecture Mass Media course in 1998.  Til then I had a relentless focus on the hipster world because it connected my students to the course and functioned as a hook to grab their Reception, then as a WATTage switch to get them to Process communication theory and research.  Just as a man will do anything if he thinks it’s foreplay, students will listen to anything if they think it’s groovy, gear, and fab.

Now, as an aging FauxHipster, even I can see the pop success of Lady Gaga when the Wall Street Journal (!!!) gives her the star treatment.  If you want a great demonstration of the truth behind All Bad Persuasion Is Sincere, now hear this:  At the Simon Cowell standard of cruel honesty, Lady Gaga cannot sing, cannot dance, and cannot pose, but she can persuade the world to think her a Icon which means there’s nothing sincere about her.

She’s great!

But, will she last as long as the last one with Blonde Ambition who showed such Great Insincerity?

Mojo Times?

The Sunday New York Times today is one of the best editions of that paper since Pinch Sulzburger took over and nearly destroyed it.  The paper is readable from <p> to </p> for every page.  Perhaps they’ve recovered from their Bush Derangement?  Once nothing but Biased Processing and Sincere Persuasion, the Grey Lady is gorgeous.

Today.

Auteurism at Apple:  Sincerity?

Jobs with iPadGreat feature on Steve Jobs at Apple and the Auteur of Innovation.  Here’s the key persuasion point:

Apple represents the “auteur model of innovation,” observes John Kao, a consultant to corporations and governments on innovation. In the auteur model, he said, there is a tight connection between the personality of the project leader and what is created. Movies created by powerful directors, he says, are clear examples, from Alfred Hitchcock’s “Vertigo” to James Cameron’s “Avatar.”

I’m uncertain how to understand Apple.  Apple and Jobs attracts admiration from the Cool Table, but the Cool Table is rarely persuasive.  Magnetic, yes.  It attracts those who are attracted to it which is not nearly the same thing as persuasive which means you change the Other Guy rather than draw Other Guys who are Just Like You.

You see this in Apple’s market share.  They get the Sophisticate Slice, but nothing like the Microsoft Masses.  For example, if I wanted to win an election or a war, I wouldn’t ask Steve Jobs for advice (unless, of course, the election or the war only involved the Cool Table).  I would ask Bill Gates.  Look at Mr. Gates work with vaccine production and distribution.  This is a guy who really thinks big and important.

Apple and Jobs reek with Sincerity.  Granted they are cool, hip, beautiful, sleek, graceful, innovative, and on and on.  But sincere.

Obama’s Persuasion Crisis

Crisis ChineseThe Chinese ideograph for Crisis contains both Danger and Opportunity and the NYT offers a great perspective piece that embraces the dynamic tension Obama faces here.

Mr. Obama rode into office on one of the most elegant narratives in recent campaign history: that he was the embodiment of hope and change. It caught the national mood, yet remained vague enough to mean pretty much whatever a voter wanted it to mean.

The Times writer then notes various challenges to this Image. Reverse Bush, but Surge Afghanistan; help the people, but bailout the banks; and so on.  The writer then unhelpfully quotes a White House perspective.

The White House largely dismisses the warnings. “The president has had a consistent political narrative since the day he stepped on the national stage in 2004,” said Dan Pfeiffer, the White House communications director. “The interpretation of it is cyclical.”

I noted that Mr. Obama lost his way on the Persuasion Path last summer and think he remains lost.

Forever Green, Forget the Price

Solar Recharger BagYou can recharge your cell phone with a solar panel device that uses Ms. Sunshine instead of Mr. Coal.  It only costs $99, but it comes with a bag so you can tote and charge on sunny days.  Pouty lipped model not included, although this technology may be a Chick Magnet.  Solar is sooo hot with Pouty Lipped women, isn’t it?

It costs about a penny to recharge the bad way (look it up).  That’s 9900 solar charges which equals over 27 years of coal charges.  Purple faced advocates:  Yes, this is too simple.  Yes, you are complex.  You are smart.  Yes, you are right.  But, of course, It’s about the Other Guy, so who cares about you?

Go long on Green when you can put it in a box and make profit for yourself.

Money, Politics, and Attitudes

Fun report on an interesting money study.  Researchers looked at how people handled their investments depending upon whether their political party was in or out of power.  You invest differently if Your Team is running things compared to when the Other Team is running things.

One of the primary findings concerned the relationship between investors’ political optimism and their propensity to hold domestic stocks. When their preferred political party came to power, investors tended to become much more upbeat about the economy and the domestic stock market.

Now, of course, there’s no good economic reason to do this.  It’s a matter of your political power perception making you feel differently about the stock market.

For Patrick

My nephew, Patrick, is a talented musician who plays the sax and wants to pursue a career in music.  We often discuss the paucity of sax pieces in the classical music repertoire.  Well, Patrick, here’s a nice Times story about Prism and how they’ve handled the problem.

Keep on moving, folks.  No persuasion here.  Just sax, but no violins.

Race and Persuasion

“I KNOW there is nothing a white person can say to a black person about race which is not both incorrect and offensive,” James Spader’s hard-driving lawyer says in the new David Mamet play, “Race.” “I know that. Race is the most incendiary topic in our history. And the moment it comes out, you cannot close the lid on that box. That may change. But not for a long long while.”

Makes it tough to write a review which, of course, is an exercise in applied persuasion.

Osama ‘Bama Wanna-be

Omar Hammami had every right to flash his magnetic smile. He had just been elected president of his sophomore class. He was dating a luminous blonde, one of the most sought-after girls in school. He was a star in the gifted-student program, with visions of becoming a surgeon. For a 15-year-old, he had remarkable charisma.

Great personality profile on an American boy, Alabama boy to boot, who’s now in Somalia leading Al Qaeda boys in jihad.

632,500

Shelby Cobra

Read all about it.

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Why I Love Advertising

31st January 2010

All is fair in love and advertising and those who pursue either by the Rules command my respect, if not my wariness.  Recall with me a simpler time when you could be romantic and smoke your brains out.

Cigarette Ad Collage

Exhale with me now.

Did you notice those warning labels?

Probably not.  But they’re there.  And for awhile they worked . . . meaning people were romantic and smoking their brains out even with the label.  The best warning label is the one hiding in plain sight.  Then the Tobacco Police wised up and realized the Rules of love and advertising and . . . you know.

Ad Track Warning Icon

Consider, now, this icon.  You’ll be seeing it on your romantic Internet adventures as advertisers warn you that they are following you on your surfin’ safari over the waves of the dubby-dub-dub.  Every click you take, every page you make, they’ll be watching you.

And you’ll know it with that EuroHipster Tourist Icon.

Baby, hand me that pack of Lucky’s and my Zippo.  I’ll watch you through the smoke . . .

Cig Ad Clouds

Remember.

All Bad Persuasion Is Sincere.

There’s a Difference between Persuasion, and Smoke and Mirrors; with Persuasion, the Illusion Lingers.

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Administrative Update 1-18-10

18th January 2010

I’m testing a new theme for this blog that employs a “newspaper” style format rather than the familiar journal layout that simply presents posts sequenced by date.  If the blog appears to behave badly or look weird, don’t worry.

Just testing!

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